Narrow diamond won't work vs 4-3-3
You should play
4-3-2-1
Meaning

ST
AML AMR
MC MC MC
DL DC DC DR
Gk
I tell you why
Because you need to match the same MC he has on middle field
So
You need to
Normal
Throw flanks
Short pass
Normal tackling
Zone
Own half
Put red arrow on AML / AMR
Offside trap off
Counter off
Because you are 0-4
Make
Attacking
Throw flanks
Whole pitch
Short pass
Hard tackling
Zone
Red arrow on DL / DR / AML / AMR
Offside trap on
Counter off