help help help 442

please anyone help ive got to addict level in 4 seasons, ive played a 4 4 2 evey season this seaosn i have the best stars in the leaguie 41.9 yet im drawing or getting beat of teams with like 32.6 and 38.4 infact i just played a cup match at home had 80/20 possesion murdered them and drew 1.1 clearly im doing somthing worng can anyone give me any tips as to small things i could be overlooking.
ps i tend to start game attacking then 2nd half go hard attacking and if still no score go long. its worked for 4 seaosns now im in 3rd place and the crowd are on my back as the squad clearly hate me. ps yes i do have a girlfriend