Need advice after 0:2 defeat against 4-3N-2-1

Guys, I am so confused and really need some help over here.

I had a cup game against a lvl 4 player, here are the teams and the quality. Attachment 11561

I decided to use a counter formation 4-4-1-1 and from the start of the game I received shot after shot on goal. At the end it turned out that she had twice as much shots but she lost some possession.

Strangely enough, my AMC didn`t do a single action during the game and she didn`t have any DMC.

Please let me know what to use for the return leg and how to eliminate her?

Thank you in advance. I will appreciate any advice !

Please guys, I would appreciate your advice !!! :(

go with 3n-1-3w-1-2: Normal , mixed focus,mixed passing,normal tackling, no counters, no offiside. Red arrows and AMC and blue on defenders and DMC

4-1-2-1-2 narrow diamond
Through the middle , own half, normal mentality . worked for me last season , tested more than 7 times,