I played 1-1 in my first cup game against this team (I had home advantage)

I used a 4-4-2 against him with arrows pointing up on my DL/ML and DR/MR.
Mixed passing and attacking down both flanks. Also Attacking and offside traps. Normal tackling and zonal marking style.

I really thought that was a good tactic and considering I had home advantage and we both got about the same rating I thought I would win the first game. 61-39 to me in possession and about equal amount of shots.

What did I do wrong and what should I change to the next game to beat him?
I appreciate any idea, thank you.