thank you very much. i already played the game and i won it. i was a bit lucky that my oppenent wasn't in the game from beginning.
i've played devensive. with that formation:

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i've decided to put more pressure on the midfield and cut a striker for that. than i went for a devensive mentality, putting blue arrows on nearly all midfielders (also dmc and amc). i've checked which of his flanks is weaker (midfield and defender) and i've put a red arrow on the ml and no arrows on the mc that where on the left side. of course i've set "force counterattacks"+ long passes in that devensive game. and this were the result:

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in the end of the game i saw, that got more and more possesion, so i substituted and went for more stikers and changed mentality into normal. don't know if i could do better. but it payed out and only the result counts.

i will remember the thing about the AMC and will try it in friendlys. amc or striker, amc or dmc, amc or mc vs opponents dmc.
thank you very much.