How to beat 4-3w-2n-1

At the moment, I see much more teams play 4-3 (ML/MC/MR)-2(AMC)-ST.

There were five games I know/saw, which no one was won:

1.) played against it (he was ~20% stronger): 4-2(DMC)-1-2w-1, hard defending-mixed-mixed-on -> lost 0:2
2.) used 4-4-2ND (vs equal team), attacking-short-middle-off-hard-normal-zonal-off -> 2:2
3.) used 4-5-1V (vs ~10% stronger), defending-mixed-mixed-on-low-low-zonal-off -> 2:2
4.) used 4-5-1V (vs ~15% weaker), attacking-mixed-mixed-off-low-normal-zonal-off -> 4:4
5.) used 4-4-2ND (vs ~5% weaker), attacking-short-middle-off-hard-normal-zonal-off -> 1:1

Wasn't only my results. It were my wife and her brother too.
Any ideas? Will 3w-2n-3n-1-1 work? But which tactic? attacking-short-middle-off? Arrows on DMC?