don't stress too much, not the first user to think fowl of another user for that reason, it is hard not too when you bust your gut trying to build a big side and then big token players or something like above happens you naturally think the worst...
thing is though for us newbies is when we join its not about us dominating, need to find our feet, learn the game but then also how to best use it to our advantage just like the fc magdeburg did...