It does suck a bit. It's the first real flaw I found about the set up. I would love if they could just sort it out, that an offer of a friendly match had to be accepted, or give you the chance to decline. Clicking to arrange and being allowed to play it in 3 mins is not fair - you will always have the upper hand over your opponent [victim]

In saying that, I'm the one who mostly arranges them against my contacts - if you add me, I will test out your team at least one time