That looks a clearer picture of what happened. His MCs outplayed yours which left your DCs exposed (I'm sure your DC had 7-8 rating). If your MCs continue to fail you then you need to invest in better MCs. I do believe MCs makes a lot of difference in a win or loss. The bulk of my club's money have gone to good MC & wideplayers (the most expensive players in my squad). Another friend of mine has an average looking team but has one good MC & a superb AML.

Also when up against a 4-3-3 or any other counter attacking formation, best to play Normal or Defensive without counterattacks.

Good luck!