Thanks guys! I went with 3N-5-2V before the last 2 replies, and scored a last minute goal to make it 1-0.
Lost on aggregates 2-3.

I see 4-2-2-2 Hex had been suggested twice, didn't really thought about Hex as the 4-1-3N-2 is quite close to 4-3N-3 which is Hex's counter formation. Might try that out in the future, as well as 4-4-2 and 4-1-4-1.