I got the same problem....you will need to play a lot of friendlies.My team is very strong but they play very nice only 1 system 3w-2-3w-2 blue arrows dc(Centre),1dmc,1 st and red arrows ml,Mr,1 dmc,1st no arrows dl,Dr,Mc!!!I 'm playing normal or attacking mentality,flanks,whole pitch pressing, easy tackling,short passes,zone,counter attack no,offside trap yes!!!!try this and tell me