Notice a pattern with those tactics? They all counter your weakness, the wings.

I don't use 3-5-2 but if I did I would do-

Attacking mentality
Short passing
Mixed flanks
Normal tackling
Press whole pitch
Zonal
No counter
Play offside

The benefits are 5 in midfield will give you a good chance of dominating possession and creating lots of chances.
Short passing will allow you to keep possession with your crowded midfield and avoid being countered.
Playing whole pitch and offside with 3 CBs is a good choice but be careful, quicker strikers could punish your CBs.

The downside is your flanks are wide open and there's a high risk of being countered.
If you're 1-0 down there's not a lot of options to improve the attack of such formation.