First problem is the mentality: no need to be offensive set, and truet me it doesnt lift your goal scored BUT, surely lift goals taken. Own half pressing in the 3-5-2 V is ok using a dmc without arrows. But against teams using wingers (Ams or Ms) use full pitch to close their wings and press on.
Counter and offside should NEVER be used: i dont get what you wrote but seems like you use them on an offensive setup, which is a big NO-NO.
Red arrow on st should only be used when aying defensively/counter attack setups. But the 4-4-2 centerfolded is somethin i'm pretty proud of having set up, so good boy on using it