1/ you can`t see your player on your own transfer list but you will see a hammer and you can see if anyone has bid by clicking that that, if it comes up green in timer then a bid has been made

2/ it can take anywhere between 1 and 3hrs to sell you will see this when you put player on list, although if late at nite it can be 5 hrs

3/ depending on player`s rating e,g if 6 star scout then only available to higher level team if 5 star then your level if 4 star will be lower level as well as your level