What's the point of giving/receiving gifts when you are not credited for them? I have 20+ fans on my friend list and if I receive 20 gifts I only get credit for 1 so there is no point in the gifts really
I suggest you sending 1 gift only after receiving 1 gift. This managerial skill can ensure that you will never loss on gifts.
Edit:
In case you don't know, you can send multiple gifts of same type in one batch. You need not send gift to friend one by one.