cheers guy, bit of a pisser then, n they say wen sum1 asks ur team for a friendly unless ur online u cant stop it, so u play the friendly lose condition and morale, Nordeus says it cant b helped, well in a way isnt it a similar situation, unless u log online then u shudnt b able 2 stop the negotiation, 1 rule 4 1 thing n another for summet else i think.