Your formation should work against all the other three formations. Red arrows on AML, AMR, DL and DR. Blue on DMC, and both MCs if needed. No matter what, focus passing down the flanks. If you are stronger, change mentality to attacking, tackling to easy if the opponent is much weaker, no counter attacks.

If you are weaker, defensive mentality, hard tackling, counter attacks, long passing. Take the red arrows off your fullbacks, definitely blue arrows on your 3 central midfielders.