So.
1) Attacking mentality - this will make you vulnerable to opponent counterattack.
2) Pressing on whole pitch. Don't do it anymore, your players will have their strength weaken in no time and beside that, see point 1).
3) No offside trap. See point 1).
4) No way man-to-man! Go zonal, always. Just an example. If you are playing 4-1-2-1-2ND and your opponent plays butterfly or whatever, how can you go man-to-man? Always go zonal!
5) Why so many arrows? It's useless to put blue arrows on defenders and red arrows on forwards. Try without any arrows, trust me. I am always, absolutely always, playing without arrows.
6) You are using the same formation. 3 DC's will make you vulnerable, again!, on flanks. Have a look, watch your opponent formation, how does he play, and use one tactic to counter him. You will find everything you need in here: http://forum.topeleven.com/formation...-what-use.html

Try everything what i've said for one game and let me know. Be sure you use a tactic to counter your opponent's one.