I'm just a newb, but being down by 4 aggregate, shouldn't he have pulled out all the stops and gone for goals? Use some kind of offensive formation and pressed hard for scoring? I think of a 4-1-4-1 as a formation to use when you want to slow DOWN scoring. It's the formation I'd have used as his opponent maybe. With a four goal lead, dare him to score enough... Am I wrong?

3N-4-1-2 or I recently had to use a 3N-4-2(AMCs)-1 to get back in a game when I was down 2... I won 3-2.