About orders i use these:

Attacking orders:

Mentality:Attack
Passing Focus: laterally
Passing Style: Long Pass
Enforcement Counterattacks:Yes

Defense:

Pressure style: Gentle
Tackle Style:Relaxed
Marking style: in zones
Using artificial offside: Yes

Those are the the orders i personally use due to let players keep some of their quality stable for the upcoming matches .

I hope that i helped you abit.