4-1-4-1 is one of the strongest formations in top eleven. Looks like you're really up against it in the second leg, I can only suggest the 4-2-2-2 hexagon. I've tried it myself against a 4-1-4-1 and won, although my opponent was equal to me. I would try defensive settings with counter using the attack bonus in match. Can't guarentee you'll go through but this tactic should give you a chance! Best of luck buddy!