How this game works ?!?!?!

[Accyrover]

While you show us your team it's hard to analyse and give any advice without your opponents formation.
Having the best quality does not guarantee a win, your team probably outnumbers mine in quality, mine would be also less than your opponent.
I still would be confident of beating your formation, your team lacks width and so is vulnerable to attacks down the flanks.
You are basically playing 4-3-2 as your DMC is doing very little hidden behind the MC, unless your opponent was playing a AMC, even with red arrows on both MC and DMC you don't solve the problem of attacks down the flanks.
Any formation with a heavy MF capable of flank attacks would most likely give you a tough game.

From your above post, your orders.

1. all in right position and i did check the ability in attack/defence/mental for every single player apart !
2.team mentality :Offensive , style : on flanks (sometimes change to right/left or center during the match) , pressing on my own half , normal overtake , mixed pass , on area marking , force counterattack (because i play with more players in my own half and all my mc/amc got 36~45 attack ability .

1. Your individual skills for the position are fine.
2. Your orders attack with counter do not work even with zonal marking, counter attack only works when defending.

With all due respect I think there are sections of this topic you need to read to understand how best to set up your team. http://forum.topeleven.com/tutorials...-part-1-a.html
Hope this helps.