4-5-1V is not far off 4-3N-2(AML/R)-1, it's worth a shot. I, personally, wouldn't use the blue arrow on the DMC (but then I'm blue arrow-phobic anyway, as I've found they often do the opposite of what I think they should do).
With the orders, I usually use normal/both flanks/low pressure/normal tackling/short passing/zonal/counter/no offside if I'm not using it for it's intended defensive purpose, but that's me...
Any formation or tactics advice given is based purely on experience with my teams...
ps if i can find any of your teams id be happy to friend you,is there a way to find you or others that post here?