Your stats look similar to my 4411 stats, really nothing looks bad in those, they are each close games from the stats. Your GK can save, your midfield can usually tackle, and you get shots on and off target.

The only notable difference to me is your pass completion rate, is very consistent and very moderate. 85 is good or better if you play with long passes. But for mixed or short, I expect higher, 86-91 with normal or attacking mentality.

As stated, share your full tactics, including any arrow you use. Arrows, especially on attackers make a difference how they act and rate. I can't really use an up arrow on my ST, and almost always have one on my AMC.

Overall though, I would keep experimenting, don't worry too much or give up because of this. You're close.