This happens to everyone at some time or other. I know its frustrating, but at least its not just a few that experience this.

On the subject of the reality of the game, I reckon the most unrealistic aspect, is the healing of players with red packs. A player gets bad injury, out for 6+ days then straight after the match, you can wave a red pack over him, and bingo, he's fit again. Doesn't happen in real life.