If he plays with motivated wingers, you need 4 defenders to contain the ST and both motivated AMR/AML. If you want to try a defensive tactics with fast counters, 4-2DMC-ML(up),MR(up)-AMC-ST could be a good choince. Normal mentality (since you are both about the same quality), pressing own half, force counter attacks, mixed attack (or down both flanks; both should work since AMC is single covered, wingers, too) and mixed or long passing (since we want to counter).

The system is no win garantee, but it covers the strong points of his a motovated 4-5-1V and exploits the weak points. Good luck.