So I emailed Nordeus and have had a few replies, no real answers though, they say it takes time to check for bugs before implementing changes. Still waiting for a reply to my question about why it takes 2 years to make simple changes. Basically getting fobbed off.
As for sending MDKII a PM, done that on Saturday still haven't received a reply back but he put the above post on about asymmetric friendly stuff after I PM'd him.
So basically still no answer as to why they are so bad at implementing changes. I really don't think the realise how badly this is affecting the game, if they got the major flaws fixed quickly this game would be fantastic and even bigger than it is.