Hi there. New to the game. Tried to search for this in the forum, but everyone seems to be talking about saving them for cup draws.

I'm trying to train a few players (def, mid and attack) and I keep finding that my defenders want to get dis-proportionally high values in Handling (equal to their existing tackling/marking skills) and it's not something I need for that player.

Similarly my central midfielders want to go with crossing, when choosing attack points.

And most players want to gain aggression when going with physical points.

It just gets very frustrating because it will great more balanced players than guys with 100 marking/tackling but 15 strength, it just seems to be overly loaded onto some skills that a number of players don't want. Any advice on how to get around it?

Is it truly random and that by getting another skill point to then assign might change the skills chosen?