1)stop comparing real football with this game and show your and opponent teams quality. Use minimal win bonus.
2)you must play with atleast 1 dmc for getting good result. I think the best formation against this is 4-1-3mc-2(cuz 2 mc against 1 not working well every time)
3)why attack through the flanks(cuz In real football it works? : D) his drdl stopped your amlamr
TL-DR you played with bad tactics and got bad result.