We're not missing your point. It's very frustrating to constantly be knocked out the Cup, especially if you have spent time and money building a team.
That's why I showed you how to get an advantageous Cup draw by 'loading' your team at the start of the season with low level/academy players.
Admittedly it's easier at higher levels as I have maxed out facilities and so get two or three youth players free per season, so I can easily build up a few very low level players in the squad to keep the average down.
So now I'm the annoying guy two or three levels higher with a team that is still competitive on my own level, instead of the other way round.