Why don't you just make it so all friendlies have to be accepted and agreed to on both ends before they are played. I hate the idea of my players playing and ruining my system with out me being able to make adjustments. I want to play friendlies but I want to know about them and select which players I want to use in the friendly. Because of this I just don't have any friends. It is to big of a risk. I don't think this solves the friendly problem (however it makes it better) It does solve the problem of having games to close together so thanks for that.