I don't take any notice of the after match stats, as they never make any sense. I don't really think there is any true way of finding out HOW you lost. This is an example of why the stats are unreliable. In a friendly I played last season, between our two teams, there were 18 fouls, (according to the stats), but alongside the stat, was another saying that there had been 5 free kicks. The two stats just do not match up.