Cracicot, you need not ask who, I was making a general statement. I will try to PM people directly if I think they are being jerky or are breaking rules, so as to be respectful and not call out people publicly. I do really wish everyone would remember that there are young users on here and to mind their foul language a bit, too.

This thread has been better than the original, and I think has a lot of good ideas, criticism and debate in it.